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Tuesday, September 27, 2016

How To Masturbate for Men

Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual response. It’s all out there, boys will be boys, etc. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Read on for simple and fun tips on how to masturbate for men.

Time Required: Male masturbation doesn’t have to always be a “quick affair”. Take your time and enjoy.

Here’s How:

Make time for more than a quickie. Most guys first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t trying to finish quick before someone interrupts.

Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune into your body. Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of guys do, and while porn can be great, it also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you from what’s actually happening in your body. You don’t need to throw the porn away, but for a few times, masturbate without porn, and objectify yourself for a change!

Do a…dry…run through. Bad pun aside, it’s a good idea to try the above suggestions, and then just masturbate as you normally would. As you do this pay attention:
Changes in your breathing: Does it become shallow and quick, slower and deeper?
Changes in your body: is there tension in some places, and relaxation in others? Is this the same every time you masturbate?

  • How does it feel just before you have an orgasm?
  • How does it feel as you orgasm, and immediately post-orgasm?

Time to switch it up. Men learn early in their lives the most effective way to get themselves off. And most never waver from the utilitarian approach to self love. But sex is less like a well oiled machine, and more like a chaotic food fair, where there is an endless selection of ways to satisfy your appetites. So it’s time to throw a wrench in the works and shake up your routine. Try any combination of the following suggestions:

Does your left hand know what your right hand is doing? Do you always use the same one hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If you’re among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be off, it’s almost like sex with someone new for the first time. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an old hand some tricks.

Experiment with positions. If you aren’t an experimental type, it’s time to start. If you’re used to masturbating lying down on your back, try sitting up. If you normally sit in a chair, try standing, or kneeling. As with all these changes, this might feel ridiculous at first, and you’ll probably go back to old faithful, but see what masturbation feels like in different positions, and notice if it brings with it any new sensations.

Get your hips moving. The way your body moves when you masturbate is probably very different from the way it moves when you’re having sex with someone else. Many men don’t move at all when they masturbate. Try to move your hips when you masturbate, simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Notice how moving your hips in different ways can bring you closer to, and at times take you farther away from, the point of orgasm.

Use different hand strokes.
Most men learn early on that a vigorous stroke does the trick. This intense up and down stimulation usually ends in a good orgasm. But there are dozens of other strokes that each bring with them different sensations, and different orgasms. Roll your penis in between your hands, moving your hands up and down your shaft. Try using long twisting strokes instead of just up and down. Experiment with different movements, pressures, and speeds.

Explore your shaft. While most of the nerve endings on the penis are at the head, and specifically the frenulum, many men will have spots on their shaft that are unusually sensitive. Try putting one hand at the base of your penis and press it towards your body while experimenting with different hand strokes along the shaft of your penis. Treat this like a treasure hunt, and try to feel the difference between one side and the other, between stimulation near the base and up near the tip.

Reach around, yourself. For many men the balls (testicles) are a very sensitive area that responds well to feelings of touch and pressure. Take your forefinger and thumb and make them in a circle at the top of your scrotum. Gently tug on your scrotum as your masturbating. This is both a way to prevent you from ejaculating and a way to extend sexual feelings in your body. Experiment with other kinds of touch including tickling, scratching, and rubbing.

Check out the neighborhood. While the penis and scrotum tend to be the epicenter of masturbatory attention, if you’re looking to open things up a bit, be sure to take a tour of some other nearby areas. The perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, is very sensitive to pressure and massage, and rubbing it provides external prostate stimulation. Speaking of which, don’t be afraid to explore the anus, both externally and by using a finger for penetration.

Bring it all together. Not everything you try is going to do it for you, but the idea behind the above tips is to try lots of different things, and then incorporate whatever you like into the ways you regularly masturbate. Maybe it’s a different stroke, or position, or breathing technique. Obviously there is no one, correct way to masturbate, and even if you’ve got something that works for you, consider the fact that there could be more out there if you experiment with it.


  • Another myth about male masturbation is that you shouldn’t use anything other than you hand. While your hand might be doing the trick, adding some accessories can make the stimulation even more intense, and inspire more creativity with yourself, and with partners.
  • Get a good quality personal lubricant . If it’s only for masturbation you can use something that’s oil based without worrying about condom compatibility. Oil based products are better because they won’t dry up.
  • Add a sex toy into the mix. It might be a vibrator, a dildo, or a cock ring (if you’ve never tried one I recommend trying one on your own before you use it with a partner). Sex toys can add a completely new kind of stimulation, and accentuate the manual stimulation your doing.

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Female Sexual Response

The beginnings of sexual arousal in a woman's body is usually marked by vaginal lubrication, engorgement of the external genitals, and internal enlargement of the vagina. Further stimulation can lead to more vaginal wetness and further engorgement and swelling of the clitoris and the labia, along with increased redness or darkening of the skin in these areas. Further changes to the internal organs also occur including to the internal shape of the vagina and to the position of the uterus within the pelvis.

Mental and physical stimuli such as touch, and the internal fluctuation of hormones, can influence sexual arousal. Cognitive factors like sexual motivation, perceived gender role expectations, and sexual attitudes play important roles in women’s self-reported levels of sexual arousal. Basson suggests that women’s need for intimacy prompts them to engage with sexual stimuli, leading to an experience of sexual desire and psychological sexual arousal.

Goldey and van Anders showed that sexual cognitions impact hormone levels in women. For instance, sexual thoughts result in a rapid increase in testosterone in women who were not using hormonal contraception. Inconsistent study results indicate that, although testosterone is involed in libido and sexuality of some women, its effects can be obscured by the co-existence of psychological or affective factors in others.

Other bodily changes include an increase in heart rate and blood pressure, as well as flushing across the chest and upper body. If sexual stimulation continues, then sexual arousal may peak into orgasm, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by an intense sensation of pleasure. Experienced by males and females, orgasms are controlled by the involuntary or autonomic nervous system.

As women age, their estrogen levels decrease. Reduced estrogen levels may be associated with increased vaginal dryness and less clitoral erection when aroused, but are not directly related to other aspects of sexual interest or arousal. In older women, decreased pelvic muscle tone may mean that it takes longer for arousal to lead to orgasm, may diminish the intensity of orgasms, and then cause more rapid resolution. The uterus typically contracts during orgasm, and with advancing age, those contractions may actually become painful.

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Eating A Vag!na Cures Cancer

The experts have been using most of their time trying to find new solution to the problems that the society is facing right now. Especially when it comes to the diseases. They are constantly trying to find new ways that could be effective and efficient for all the people.

Did you know that eating a girl’s private organ could save you from fatal diseases such as cancer and heart disease?

According to the research that was made in the State University of New York, the most important meal that a man should take is eating a v@gina.

The hormones such as the DHEA Hormones and Oxytocin are being produced whenever cunnilingus happens. These hormones are capable of preventing cancer to an individual.

This act does not only satisfy the urges of man and woman but also helps improve the health condition of an individual. It is a way of enjoying the pleasure while having health benefits.

So the next time that you doubt about going down on a woman, be sure to keep all of these things in your mind. This is not only for your safety but also for the pleasure of your body.

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Tuwad na Daan

Sexy dancers wearing skimpy black outfit performed on stage after Mar Roxas led the oath-taking of 80 local officials as new LP members in Sta. Cruz, Laguna. The affair coincided with the birthday celebration of Laguna Rep. Benjie Agarao.

One of the dancers even gyrated to sexy music while sitting on top of a man clad in a yellow shirt based on a video posted on social media.

“Emcee says these girls are MMDA chair Francis Tolentino’s ‘surprise gift’ to those who attended LP event,” Inquirer reporter Marlon Ramos captioned a snap of the photos showing the performers.

A short video of the lewd performance was also posted online during the LP gathering attended by presidential bet Mar Roxas.

Tolentino has drawn flak for bringing dancers as “gift” during Agarao’s birthday party. The senatorial aspirant however has denied any involvement, saying the emcee was probably misinformed.

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Fake Orgasm

Madalas, mga babae ang nagfe-fake ng orgasm.  Nakaranas na ba kayo na ang partner nyo ang nag-fake ng kanyang orgasm?  Pano nyo ba masasabi kung fake ang orgasm ng babae?  Well, mahirap i-identify yan.  Kasi magaling mag fake ng orgasm ang babae.  Ganun din kasi ako.  Akala nila nilabasan na ko pero hindi pa.  Kaya minsan humihingi pa ko ng second round.  Sa mga babae, mararamdaman mong nag-orgasm ka na kung nanginginig at umiinit ang iyong katawan, bumibilis ang pintig ng iyong puso, umaakyat ang iyong dugo sa iyong ulo at parang nararamdaman mong pumapantig ang iyong puke.  Kung ito ay mapapansin ng mga lalake, ibig sabihin ay napapaligaya nyo ang iyong partner.

Bibigyan ko kayo ng tips, lalo na sa mga lalake, para mabigyan nyo ng orgasm ang mga partner nyo.  At sa mga babae naman, para ma-achieve nyo ang orgasm na di lang isang beses, pwede ring multiple orgasm.

  • Foreplay - Importante 'to sa bawat babae.  Ito ay panimula upang uminit ang babae.  Tulad sakin, gusto ko may foreplay muna bago ang pagkantot.  Maaring passionate kissing, sensual massage, petting o touching ang gawin na foreplay.  Maaari din na manood kayo ng porn habang nagtatalik para parehas kayong uminit at maging horny.
  • Masturbate - Para sa mga babae, maganda na rin na matuto tayong mag masturbate.  Ibabahagi ko sa inyo ang mga paraan ng pag-masturbate sa susunod kong post.  Sa pag-mamasturbate, mas malalaman mo kung ano ang magpapaligaya sayo sa pamamagitan ng paghawak at paglaro mo sa iba't ibang parte ng iyong katawan.
  • Sex toys - May ibang mag-partner na ayaw gumamit ng sex toys.  Anila, maaring masanay ang tao sa paggamit ng sex toys at hindi na sila labasan sa aktwal na pagtatalik.  Ito ay hindi totoo dahil ang mga sex toys ay isang paraan lamang para malaman ng tao kung saan sya maliligayahan.  Isa lamang itong tulong upang ma-explore mo ang iyong katawan at kakayanan.
  • Communication - Importante na sinasabi mo sa partner mo kung ano ang mga bagay na magpapaligaya sayo pagdating sa sex.  Sa ganitong paraan, pareho nyong maaabot ang langit.  Kung kinakailangan nyong mag talk dirty, gawin nyo.  Kung ang iba't ibang position ay makakapag-arouse sa inyo, gawin nyo.  Ang importante, di ka nahihiya at sinasabi mo sa partner mo kung ano ang gusto mo.  Kaya importante rin na pinagkakatiwalaan mo ang partner mo pagdating sa sex.
 Maaaring marami pang paraan para maabot ang orgasm.  Ito ay base lamang sa aking karanasan.  Baka meron pa kayong mai-share.  Kaya nyo bang ipa-multiple orgasm ang babae?  Gawin nyo nga sakin yun!

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Rape in typhoon yolanda-hit areas

Survivors in Tacloban City claim looting, rape continue, even with security personnel around. And residents testify to the rape of some women worsening the human devastation after the typhoon.

As the international relief effort in the Philippines gets under way, UK development secretary Justine Greening says not enough is being done to protect women and girls from the threat of rape, violence, forced marriage and trafficking.

Gabriela Rep. Luzviminda Ilagan has raised the alarm concerning reports of escalating violence and rape in areas devastated by Typhoon Yolanda.

 “A humanitarian crisis of this proportion can and will spawn violence,” she said.

“It is high time that the Aquino government get its act together rather than waste time and effort defending itself from international criticism for its glaringly disorganized and incompetent response to the disaster brought about by super typhoon Yolanda.”

The deployment of security forces to control looting had no impact on allaying fears of further violence, including rape primarily because survivors need organized relief and rehabilitation efforts, she added.

Ilagan said six days after the typhoon, survivors continue to walk, sleep and scour for food among the dead in ruined structures.

“Why is it that there’s no centralized shelter or even a tent city in these areas?” she asked.

It is unthinkable to most of us that as well as having to contend with the basic human need of finding food and water, shelter for you and your family and medicine to prevent disease spreading or treat those with wounds, hundreds of thousands of women and girls will face the very real risk of violence, including sexual exploitation and abuse, rape, forced marriage and trafficking.

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Chito Miranda and Neri Naig video scandal

Chito Miranda and Neri Naig video scandal has been leaked online! OH-MY-GEE!!

Scandal video shows Chito Miranda and Neri Naig in a very private moment, which is supposed to be PRIVATE and not to be shared with everyone else. But now, it has gone public and being watched by millions of web users.

The 7.18-minute Chito Miranda and Neri Naig video scandal is believed to have been uploaded first on Youtube, but, of course, it was later taken down.

However, many were able to re-upload and download Chito Miranda and Neri Naig's video, and copies have already circulated anywhere on the web, until it reached another popular video hosting site. On Facebook, someone even created a page dedicated to the video controversy and posted a copy of it there. Oh no!

It's really saddening that this has happened considering that Chito is a well-respected Pinoy music icon.

Chito Miranda and Neri Naig, age 37 and 27 respectively, became a couple in December 2011. Before Neri, Chito had been long known as boyfriend of actress Kaye Abad.

There are unconfirmed reports that Chito Miranda and Kaye Abad video scandal has also leaked. I hope it's not true. Please!

Lesson to be learned here? Don't ever make your own video scandal.
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